20多岁最后悔做的4件事情 “Chill”除了“寒冷”之意

大家有没有想过吃后悔药呢？

其实20多岁我们大多生活的很自在

只是到了现在这个年龄估计会回头看看

今天给大家总结投票除了前四名大家后悔的事

歌曲是不是很复古呢？

看过恶作剧之吻的应该都听过吧

橘子酱是妥妥的80后哦

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1.Letting the party go on a little too long

1.吃喝玩乐的时间略长

Sure, your 20s is usually a life period where you"re pretty free of responsibilities, and many of us use that time to enjoy life and go a little wild. But take this too far and you will regret it, warn a number of Quora users.

确实，20多岁通常是人的一生中最无拘无束的时期，而且很多同龄人都会选择在这段时期享受生活甚至干点疯狂的事情。但是时间长了你就会后悔了，Quora上许多答主都这么提出警告。

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2.Living the life your parents want for you, not the one you want

2.过着父母希望你过的生活，而不是你自己想过的生活

One of the top regrets of seniors is following others" expectations for their life rather than their own dreams and preferences. Apparently, there"s a particular flavor of this problem that"s common as early as your 20s--living out your parents" aspirations, not your own.

对于年纪稍长的人来说，他们后悔的其中一件事情就是活在他人的期待之中而不是自己的梦想和喜好。很明显，这种特别的现象对于20多岁的年轻人来说是也同样常见——活出父母的愿望，而不是自己的梦想。

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3.Working on a relationship before you work on yourself

3.在能够独立自理前就经营一段感情

According to both everyday wisdom and reams of research, love is central to happiness. But you can"t really form a quality relationship with someone else until you have your own self sorted, caution several Quora respondents. Rush things and you"ll just end up in a regrettable muddle.

根据每日智慧与大量的研究表明，幸福最为重要的因素就是爱。但是，只有当你能够完全独立，你才能与他人建立一段良好的关系，许多Quora答主是这么回答的。冲动鲁莽只会使你陷入后悔的泥潭。

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4.Confusing a job and a career

4.混淆职业与事业的概念

Your 20s are almost always a decade of professional growth. Several respondents cautioned that you can slow that process if you"re not clear with yourself about the value of any particular gig. For some folks that means investing too much in a rent-paying gig they aren"t passionate about. For others it means failing to see to it that their current job or interest could and should be built into a real career.

每个人的20多岁事情几乎都是事业发展的关键时期。许多Quora答主都认为，如果你无法认清自己的某项职业行动的价值，你大可以缓一缓。对于有些人来说这就意味着过度投资于付清租房费用，但他们却并不为之感到振奋。对于别人来说则意味着无法保证他们当前的职业或兴趣能否或应否培养起一份真正的事业。

You can regret either under- or overinvesting in your work, the lesson seems to be. What you won"t regret is being clear-eyed about your longer-term professional trajectory and whether today"s effort is serving your goals, whatever they may be.

你可以后悔自己对工作的投入不足或过度，但你会学到其中的经验。但你不会后悔的是能够看清自己的长期职业发展轨道，以及今天的努力能否为你的目标服务，无论是什么目标。

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